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6 Ways To End A Fight With Your Wife Quickly


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People often say, “happy wife, happy life” when it comes to marriage. So does this mean that when you have an argument, you should just give in and say, “Yes, dear”? No, it really doesn’t. Acquiescing to every argument or disagreement won’t bring happiness. In fact, it’s much more likely to create resentment and deeper problems going forward.

That doesn’t mean you need to allow fights to drag on and on, however. Disagreements that go on too long can erode the closeness between you and your wife. And the longer they last, the more likely you are to lose sight of what the original issue was, to begin with, and focus more on “winning.” This is a dangerous mindset for both you and your partner. Either one of you digging in and feeling determined to be right will create even deeper issues in the long run.

So, putting a quick end to an argument is a good idea for you, your wife, and the health of your relationship. This isn’t always an easy thing to do, though. Check out the following tips to help you and your wife quickly resolve disagreements and get back on track.

1-Try to control you – not your wife.

It can be hard to remember, especially during a fight, but the only behavior you can control is your own. It seems simple, but exercising deliberate control over your actions when you are feeling emotional can be really difficult. So as things escalate, make a point to keep your approach collaborative and your body language open. This means a more relaxed stance, neutral face, and a softer voice.

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